Here is my story…
My journey to becoming a Personal Transformation Coach is a testament to grit, perseverance, and the power of personal transformation. I grew up in a broken home marked by poverty, addiction, and various forms of abuse—emotional, physical, and substance-related. My father was absent, consumed by his addiction, and my mother, while physically present, was consumed by caring for my sister, who had been paralyzed in a devastating car accident, and navigating her own struggles in an abusive marriage. In the midst of these challenges, I was left to navigate my teenage years with little guidance, feeling forgotten and unsure of my future.

As a freshman in high school, I dropped out due to the overwhelming family challenges we were facing. Without guidance or motivation, I felt depressed and disengaged, and it seemed like nobody cared whether I was in school or not. In my teenage mind, I thought, "Why should I care if no one else does?" I later returned to school but was expelled multiple times, losing credits and falling further behind. I lacked direction and support, and my self-worth was at an all-time low.

Everything changed at the start of my senior year when my English teacher pulled me aside. To my surprise, I had been nominated for Senior Homecoming Queen. However, my teacher informed me that I was not officially a senior because I had lost too many credits from being expelled. As a result, I was not eligible to participate in the homecoming court, and I would not graduate with my class. Hearing those words hit me like a ton of bricks. In that moment, something inside me shifted. There was no way I was going to let myself be embarrassed or let anyone believe I was less than I was capable of being.

I persevered. I took zero-hour classes that started before the school day, attended night school every evening, and worked tirelessly to catch up on my credits. My days were long and grueling, but I refused to give up. When I walked across the stage on graduation day, it was one of the most powerful and transformative moments of my life. All of my teachers and school officials on stage stood up, cheered for me, and gave me hugs. For the first time, I felt truly supported, and I realized that hard work and determination could change the course of my life.

That pivotal moment taught me that transformation begins within. I learned a long time ago that no outside force can magically change my life. The responsibility for transformation lies within each of us—in every decision we make, every choice we embrace, and every step we take forward. While the path isn’t easy, it’s worth it. My childhood, though challenging, shaped me into the person I am today. It taught me to value inner work, to persevere, and to break patterns. The trajectory of my life is different because I chose to do the hard work of transformation, and that fills me with gratitude and purpose everyday..

If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure of how to break free from old patterns, know that transformation is possible. It starts with a decision—a decision to look within, to take responsibility, and to take the first step forward. The tools and lessons I’ve used to rewrite my own story are the same ones I now teach, guiding others to create clarity, confidence, and lives they’re proud of.

I believe that transformation takes courage. It takes grit to face your inner world, to confront old patterns, and to build a new future from the inside out. But I also believe it’s one of the most rewarding journeys you can take. If I can rise above my circumstances and create a life filled with purpose and fulfillment, so can you. Together, let’s uncover your potential, break through limitations, and create a future you’re proud of.